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Post by Eric on Apr 15, 2007 12:44:43 GMT
Speaking only from personal experience, one's national identity doesn't necessary change with a change in one's country of residence. I was only 7 years of age when my folks immigrated to the US what seems like an eternity ago, and I've been a naturalized US citizen since 1974, yet I still have some rather vivid memories of my native land and still hold it dear to my heart. I am quick to tell folks that I am a Brazilian by birth, still speak Portuguese, and that in spite of having lived here for 55 years, 28 of which I was served in the military, in active and reserve capacities, I'm still a Brazilian in my heart. Considering Hayley has lived in New Zealand far longer than I lived in Brazil, it's very likely Haley will feel the same about New Zealand. With respect to whatever fellow is fortunate enough to capture her heart, I'm sure Haley is intelligent enough to choose wisely and to allow for a long enough courtship that she'll know whether he is worthy of her, loves her truly and deeply for herself, and not just a silver-tongued devil who wants a trophy on his arm. Not everyone can have the good fortune to have a six-month courtship and a 37 year marriage as did I. Ed Hi Ed, I agree with you. Maybe I didn't need to post the fact that I agreed with you, but you're a couple days newer than me on this forum and already catching me up on my posts. I had to get busy! (only kidding) As far as the lucky gent goes, if she can find a high-quality young man who can pass the Westenra test of excellence, he will undoubtedly have to satisfy the stringent "HWI standards" as well. If she'll let us, we'll not allow her that opportunity to settle with the wrong lad. Hayley, if you ever read this...I'm only lovingly joking. We all believe you're quite capable of making that decision yourself. Only the Best, Eric PS Have I gone off-topic again? Perhaps I need a thread that says, "Eric, you post here."
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Post by postscript on Apr 15, 2007 13:09:39 GMT
One small point, Milewalker, in your ideas about Hayley's associations away from NZ is that in the London areas she inhabits there are many established Kiwis and the information that is available is that she is very much part of a strong Kiwi-culture. She might well liaise with a fellow-Kiwi in London as in NZ itself!
Also, rather similarly as with the US (as was most often the case) it was better to settle in the US for tripping back to the UK than vice-versa. Ironically, current exchange rates means the reverse is possibly true for travel for the moment but living standards in the US remain cheaper.
Likewise in the UK and NZ. If you want a foot in both camps the UK is better. At present, the economic argument could be that if you want a foot in all three camps and arguably she does, the UK (and that means London) is undoubtedly best. Peter S.
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Post by Ed on Apr 15, 2007 18:43:52 GMT
Eric D:
I think we're both going off topic here concerning Hayley's lucky young fellow, but others have led us off-topic by mentioning it in their prior posts. I can tell though they are not cheering for you--they don't want her to settle for a Yank! It kinda makes you think about what low regard the world has for us. It's probably deserved.
And who said posting one's opinions was a competition? If it were then Stephany has won all the gold there is to win. Our combined efforts couldn't match her accomplishments.
Ed
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Post by Stephany on May 10, 2007 14:30:13 GMT
Hi everyone, There was an article published today in a NZ paper closely related to this topic's issue. I thought it could be interesting to post it here. It also briefly mentions Hayley's name. Best wishes, Stephany
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Post by stevemacdonald on May 10, 2007 15:30:21 GMT
Well part of that is the charm Kiwis have when they go elsewhere. I've met several transplanted Kiwis here in the States and they're all unusually charismatic and upbeat. One of them even won the Miss Kansas City Sports pageant! And by coming here they encourage us to go there, so there's some two-way crossing going on.
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Post by milewalker on May 12, 2007 22:11:23 GMT
The only thing is Steve that I am not sure that the trade off you are talking about really benefits NZ and its culture in the long run. Many of the best features there seem to me to be only possible because the country was until recently so isolated. Culturally, when a small country mixes it up with much larger ones, the small one loses in the exchange nearly all the time. Over time, New Zealand will become much more like the rest of the world than the rest of the world will become like New Zealand.
Jon
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